Love should always come before sex. I’ve never understood the type of relationship that has reached a level where the most intimate experiences are shared with one another, but a man is still reluctant to say “I love you”.
Actually I do get it. I just see right through it, and I don’t agree with it.
First of all it’s uncommitted and provides for an easy out in the future. It’s an exit strategy for when things aren’t working out quite like expected, but it allows him all the satisfaction and enjoyment he wants from a woman in the meantime. If that’s how things turn out it just ends in heartbreak, devastation, and shame. Second, even if he does end up saying it eventually you’ll never know if it’s genuine or if it’s contingent upon performance. The only way to tell would be to stop being sexually active, but then you run the risk of him taking his “out” and moving on the next girl who will give him what he wants. So be careful. If the ‘L’ word makes a man nervous, take that as warning, because I can assure you his anxiety of saying “I love you” is never going to contribute to a relationship being more fulfilling. If he doesn’t love you get out. Don’t let it go any further.
Most men aren’t capable of showing the kind of love you deserve. But just remember that exceptional men actually do exist, and that’s the only kind you deserve. You’re a princess because you’re a daughter of the king of all kings. The only type of man that will ever be good enough for you is a real prince; a man whose heart is surrendered to Jesus Christ.
Remember, love is patient.